Love marriage or Arranged marriage?
There are host of factors that will decide how a person will envisage a marriage and pursue for a final decision ?.from the face and figure of the ?would be? spouse??etc. etc?to his professional background, life style, earning potential?. to cultural background etc? etc. . Under this process there must be certain element of compromise while one factor is favourable to offset another deficient factor. The overall evaluation, to some extent makes both persons to believe that each one is a beneficiary will alone lead to the marriage. If dowry and any other compulsory conditions involving money, property or costly gifts transfer are not involved even girls too become equally a beneficiary in such a situation, especially when she is equally or better educated and landed into a gainful employment and will have her own entity with own financial freedom.

Thus the question of Love or Arranged Marriage will never put anyone in a predicament. Love is only favourable step for Marriage? it can also be called an Arranged Marriage. Similarly nowadays an ideal family proposed marriage will differ from a conventional Arranged marriage provided both people finds comfortable when the majority of factors are synchronized prompting them to love each other prior to marriage! This is the present day reality.

Prospective brides and grooms?. Please focus more into studies and carrier and be ready to commence the process of marriage?.. Keep on identifying a spouse who is likely to identify you as his/her spouse! Let your family too be involved in their own search. They cannot thrust any marriage on you. You alone will decide your marriage. See all pros and cons of options available, but never waste too much time for this compliance. There is no best decision or worst decision. Once decide never try to do post-mortem analysis. You have to carry forward and make a best family??.. You have to believe that you are in the right track for a long haul of life together?..

The most convincing reason that proves arranged marriages is better than Love marriages would be Statistics! In most cases, couples who had an arranged marriage are more understanding towards each other.

For

1. In an arranged marriage, first few years of the marriage are spent in knowing and understanding the person. There is a sense and demand of spending more time with each other.
2. In a love marriage, before the marriage, the couple shares a very different level of understanding. This understanding when tied to social obligations expected once married, are difficult to obey.
3. It is easy to adjust with the partner in an arranged marriage as compared to love marriage. This is because in a love marriage things may often be taken for granted.
4. Since the partners have never met before, in an arranged marriage, they care more about each other needs.
5. Arranged marriages help resolves domestic issues faster. There is a sense of fear of losing the partner.
6. For some unforeseen reason, the marriage does not work; there are many people who will support more.
7. In most cases, love marriages force the couple to stay away from family. This leaves them with no choice but to tackle their own problems.


Against

1.In today?s busy lives no one has the time to understand each other after marriage.
2.Arranged marriage, most of the times works on compromises. In a love marriage they were in love even before the marriage and hence compromises are less.
3. In an arranged marriage, social obligations can get frustrating at times.
4. Love married couples learn how to become independent since most of the times they are separated and hence are able to tackle their problems.
5. A comfort level has already been developed between the couple.
6. Expectations from parents are less since most of the times decision of marrying is usually initiated by the couple.

Whether it is love or arranged, trust, understanding and commitment is what drives towards a successful marriage.

Marriage is something in which some hearts are bound together by the relationship called love. Couples should understand each other. In arranged marriage time given for a couple to understand each other is very small so it is very difficult to have a better understanding. But in the case of love marriage each will understand each other. So there will be very minimum chance for misunderstandings. Love occurs between the people who understand each other. The main reason for problem between the couples is misunderstanding. In the love marriage misunderstandings are minimum so it stands for life.

Marriages can be divided into 3 categories Arranged marriage, Love marriage and love arranged marriage. In this every category has individual deeds. Arranged marriage are only by wish of parents in this in this both the couples doesn't know about each this is lead to some problem if its not sooner also later surely problem will come between them. Now love marriage in this each understand themselves what they are what and all they all things but if they marry without the permission there parents surely problem if a small problem comes between them became so bigger and this will also lead to the disaster, And the best is to do is the love arranged marriage in this couples as well the family members will be happy and if problem comes it will be solved easily but I am sure in this no problem or anything will come to them.

In Today's world Smoking has become fashionable. As we know that Smoking is a practice in which a substance called tobacco is burned and the smoke is tasted or inhaled. The one of the most common examples of smoking is cigarettes. Smoking is injurious to health. People who smoking not only they suffered but only suffered the surrounding people. However, although I feel that smoking can be harmful, I do not think it should be banned completely.

Against -

1. Smoking should be banned or not it is a personal choice. If a smoker is acting with regards to others around them or in their personal home or space then they should be allowed to have the right to light up.
2. Smoking undoubtedly helps many people to relax. Many people like to smoke before exams or when they are relaxing with friends.
3. Smoking can never be quit by anyone. so, government should take efforts to put ban on deadliest cigarettes. But till now smoking not banned because corrupted people government take profit from this business.
4. If cigarette will be banned then it will not help out the people to avoid smoking but instead of that it will affect those poor people who earn their daily wages from the cigarette industry. Hence alternate steps should be encouraged by the government such as banning of smoking at the public places.

For -

1. Smoking is harmful to the smoker's health as well as the environment. so, it should be completely banned. As we know that health is wealth if we lose our health we lose everything. According to World Health Organization (WHO), tobacco kills 5.4 million people a year and it is predicted to kill 1 billion people in the 21st century if current smoking trends continue. Smoking contributes to millions of deaths due to Lung cancer, throat cancer, wrinkles, gum disease and many more.
2. it is dangerous for your health and it even affect to economy so I think that smoking should be banned completely.
3. At the cost of human lives, revenue earning to the country is meaningless. So save people from smoking and stay healthy.
4. Besides the benefits of smoking, People who addict to tobacco pay much money to buy cigarettes a year. Further governments around the world have to pay billion dollars for the treatment in hospitals for health problems. There is also concern today about passive smoking.
5. To Stop Smoking, Make the awareness in schools, colleges and universities. Cancer patient pictures have to be banner in public places and exhibition centre.

I think Arranged marriage is far better than love marriage. I shall give you a psychological edge to this fact. If a thing pleases your eyes you start liking it then you start loving it and this is where your heart comes into play. Then it is taken over by your mind and you start questioning your heart and mind as to why only this face. In like debate in-between yourself the heart is the winner (90%)

whereas in case of arranged marriage your parents who have seen the world with all views and have experienced the stage which you are into can balance the situations better and can go in details. More over in love marriage what I have seen both the girls and the boy try to put their best foot forward when the love is on as the fear of losing is there and when it comes to marriage and they start staying together they come to know the complete man or woman and then there are many things which might not be appreciated by each other and there is a sad ending. Where as in arranged marriage a new man/woman is front of you and you have to understand and explore him/her from the very beginning and you are mentally prepared for it so the conflicts are less.

All said and it is the compromising level on the partners which makes a marriage successful weather it is arranged or Love. You have to be a good swimmer to reach the other end. You yourself are parameter to calculate it.

I am married to my boyfriend .We were along for 8 yrs then we decided to get married. Although we got married with our families consent only and with huge celebrations. Now I have a 8 months Son: RYAN and we are very happy with our life. There is a special bonding that we share among ourselves. I think Love Marriages give a boost to NON-Dowry environment .We marry our beloved and we don?t want to take any Dowry. It is a special thread which is taken care of by both the partners. In Arranged marriages there is a pressure on the couple .Family values are at stake in arrange marriages if the the new bride or bridegroom does not gives importance to it..Even finally I can say that in Love marriages we decide about our future on our own so we cannot blame on others for any side effects of our marriages.

I am in an arranged marriage and i find it great............I am able to understand my husband completely only after staying with him and he turned out to be much better person than he was during courtship period..........and I guess its same with him......misunderstanding problems everything happens but it sorted out immediately.......even if we r not on talking terms we can understand what?s going in each other?s mind.............yes family is important............because they are naturally empowered to make or break your marriage.(by creating trivial long-lasting problem or by helping u solve the problem or by being non interfering)..........so believe it or not in India arrange marriages work better than love marriages bcoz of the social structure and culture..........and of course here marriage is not between two people but two families...........we shall never forget this fact.